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ACJU Online Newsletter: Vol. 1 Issue No. 15
17 Thul Hijjah 1436 / 01 October 2015
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What Islam Says About Children - Allah Guarantees the Rights of Children

Islam is a religion revealed by Allah Swt for all people, in all places, at all times.  As such, Islam is accessible to everybody and is particularly mindful of the importance of respect, rights, and responsibilities.  The words of the Quran and the authentic traditions of Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), contain the rights and responsibilities granted by Allah Swt to humankind.  They are not subject to the whims and desires of men or women therefore they do not change.  These unique rights mentioned in Islam also include the rights of children.  Children’s rights are not guaranteed by the actions of their parents, their communities, or even their governments.  Allah Swt Himself guarantees children’s rights.
 
Islam establishes a legal framework, and embodies a code of ethics, designed to protect the rights of an individual including his or her right to live in a secure society.  For children, security is of the utmost importance.  The rights of a child begin even before birth; in fact they begin before conception. The Quran and the authentic traditions of Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) make it clear that two people should not enter into a marriage carelessly.  A great deal of thought and preparation is necessary before man and woman commit to each other and to the family that may result from their union. 
Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) was heard to say, “A woman may be married for four reasons: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty, and her religious commitment.  Marry the one who is religiously committed.”
 
If a man and a woman have both dedicated their lives to worshiping and pleasing their Creator then the rights of any children they may have are automatically guaranteed.  Worshiping Allah Swt means obeying His commandments and His commandments include securing the rights of the child.  By marrying, rather than having an illicit relationship, the couple has already begun to secure the rights of their future children.  A child has the right to know and understand his or her lineage.

Right to Life
Once a child is conceived, it has the right to life. The Quran makes it very clear that all life is sacred. It is never permissible to terminate a pregnancy because one fears being unable to financially support a child or another child.  It is Allah Swt, who is the Provider and Sustainer of all life.
 
“…kill not your children because of poverty – We provide sustenance for you and for them”. (Quran 6:151)
 
When making a decision to terminate a pregnancy it is important to remember that having a child is a blessing from Allah Swt and all such blessings should be accepted with joy and gratitude.  There are many people in the world today who are not able to have children, therefore when Allah Swt blesses a family with one, it should be a cause for celebration and happiness. With them comes great responsibility.
 
Responsibility
The Quran and the authentic traditions of Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) , speak clearly about the responsibility that comes with raising a child.  It is an obligation upon the believers to raise and care for children by bringing them up as moral, righteous human beings.  Secure in the knowledge that they are valued members of the human race, and their particular families.  Neglecting this duty could potentially lead a person away from the path of righteousness and away from God.
 
“O you who believe!  Ward off yourselves and your families against a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who disobey not, (from executing) the Commands they receive from God, but do that which they are commanded” (Quran 66:6)
 
Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said, “Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock.  The ruler is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock.  A man is the shepherd of his family and is responsible for his flock.  A woman is the shepherd of her husband’s household and is responsible for her flock”.
 
Caring for and raising children in the proper manner is a duty on parents and it is not always easy.  In fact, Allah Swt reminds us in the Quran that children may even be a great trial for their parents. The triumphs and tribulations of life are a test and children are no exception. They can bring great joy and at times they can bring great sadness as well.  Allah Swt in His infinite wisdom never leaves a human being alone and unable to face all of life’s trials.
 
“Your wealth and your children are only a trial, whereas Allah Swt, with Him is a great reward (Paradise).” (Quran 64:15)

Teachings of Islam
Following the teachings of Islam enables a believer to face all life events including the trials the tribulations and the triumphs.  The correct Islamic advice for raising and rearing children covers all aspects of life.  Just like Islam itself, it is holistic advice.  Physical, emotional, and spiritual well being are all of equal importance.  It is interesting to note that Islam has always covered the rights of children. The Islamic view of childhood states that it is a unique period in an individual’s life.
 
The late Islamic scholar, Sheikh Uthaimeen (Rahmathullahi Alaihi), described children as a trust given to parents by Allah Swt.  He also said that children are to be well fed, well-groomed, properly dressed for seasons and appearance.  Children are entitled to education, religious learning, and spiritual guidance.  Their hearts must be filled with faith and their minds entertained with proper guidance, knowledge, and wisdom.  With that in mind, the following series articles will guide us through child care in Islam.

Source: http://jamiat.org.za/what-islam-says-about-children/
Ibn Umar Radhiyallaahu Anhu states Rasulullah (ﷺ) has said:
“When you meet the Haji, greet him, shake his hands and instruct him to seek forgiveness for you before he enters his home, for undoubtedly he is forgiven.”
(Ahmed)


When Hasan Basri (Rahmatullahi Alaihi) was asked,“What constitutes a Hajj-e-Mabroor?” He replied, “That you return from Hajj turning your back to the world and striving for the Aakhirah.”
(Al-Tabsirah)



How the Holy Prophet () behaved with children?

The Prophet Muhammad () acknowledged the attitude of this age and he treated them the way they liked to be treated. He tried to spread through them by his simplicity, joking and kindness important meanings in disciplining, upbringing and molding a successful personality.


1. When the Holy Prophet () hears a child crying while he’s praying he would lighten his prayer so the mother could finish prayer and carry him, see what he needs so he would stop crying.He said: “I rise up to pray, with the intention to elongate my prayer, thereupon I hear the cry of a child which makes me shorten my prayer disliking to make it hard on his/her mother.”
[Al-Bukhari 868]
 

2. The Holy Prophet () used also to play with children and speak to them about their private matters even if they seem to some people as unimportant. 
Anas Ibn Malik
(Radhiyallahu Anhu) says:
“The Prophet was best of people in manners, and I had a brother called Abu ‘Umair and I think he was weaned, when he meets him he says to him: “what happened to Al-Nughair” (his friend bird).
[Al-Bukhari 6129]
 
The brother of Anas ibn Maalik (may Allah be pleased with him)  was called Abu ‘Umayr and he had a bird whose name was Al-Nughayr. The bird died and the child grieved for it, and the Prophet tried to cheer him up by saying, “O Abu ‘Umayr, what happened to al-Nughayr?”
The Nughayr is a small bird like a sparrow, or it was said that it is a nightingale.

 
3. Abdullah Ibn ‘Amer, he says: “My mother called me once when the Messenger of Allah () was in our house, she said: “Hey, come here I will give you something”, then the Messenger () commented saying: “what did you want to give him”, She replied “I will give him dates”, then the Messenger () said: “If you did not give him anything (upon calling him) it would be recorded on you as a lie.” [Abu Dawûd 4991]


A Meeting was held with the Aluthkade Masjid Federation's Education Committee & ACJU' s Education Division to implement the ACJU' s Education Projects in 4 schools of the area. This meeting was held at the Abdul Hameed Street Jumuah Masjid, on the 22nd of September.

An Online Video Training session, was conducted on "Introduction to Maktab and Implementation" to selected Ulama in the United States of America, by the ACJU Maktab Division on the 26th and 27th of September.

A discussion was conducted with the members of the Dematagoda Masjid Federation to implement the new 6 Projects of the ACJU Education Division through Masjid Federation on 28th of September.
 
A Special Meeting was conducted for All Island Maktab Center Muawins on "Future Progress of Maktab" at the Head office on the 29th of September.

 
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