This past Sunday was Haitian Mother’s Day. I have had the joy of being called mama by my beautiful girls and also to many here in Haiti. Not long after we arrived here, a translator started calling me “Mama Gwyn” and that name has stuck. I love the mama hat I get to wear because it’s such a privilege to be called to this role. Even the days that are not as fun, and believe me we had plenty of them especially with homeschooling for 13 years, I wouldn’t change a day. I’ll take the good with the not so good just to be able to be called mama. And I love that many here in Haiti call me mama. I feel like that term of endearment lets me know that they know I love them like a mama would and that I would do all that I could to help them and to see them grow in the Lord.
I’ve been reading a book called Deep Discipleship by J.T. English; it talks about how the body of the church should have a plan for doing discipleship and that we should function like a family. There should be the mamas and papas that teach, encourage and correct and we should also have brothers and sisters in Christ that we can talk to, share life with, help each other through struggles and enjoy having fellowship with one another. English writes, “So, how do you have all members of the family pursuing maturity together, without falling back into the habits of comparison, competition, and frustration? We need to see one another as family. What if more mature saints viewed themselves as fathers and mothers who are meant to encourage and exhort younger believers as if they were their own sons and daughters? What if sons and daughters championed the growth and development of their more mature fathers and mothers? What if we were as invested in one another’s growth as we are invested in our own? What if the holistic discipleship of others mattered as much as our own?” (65)
Troy and I feel discipleship happens best as we do life together. It takes building relationships. Throughout our lives, God has brought people in and out our lives that we hopefully have encouraged, helped spiritually mature and even corrected when they needed it. We did that with many of our kid’s friends as they were growing up and we’ve also had the privilege to do that here in Haiti as well. Discipleship is essential to a growing Christian and it doesn’t ever stop. We all need that person in our lives that can teach us, advise us and correct us when we need it.
Discipleship is essential in growing spiritually. I would highly encourage you if you don’t have someone investing in you, seek out a more mature Christian and ask them to meet with you regularly. Allow them to speak into your life and point you to Christ. Be gracious when it might be something hard to hear. Get involved in a church that is actively investing in their people to spiritually grow.
This is why Troy and I have been partnering with a local church here in Haiti. We’ve been working with Pastor Savin now for three years. We began these discipleship classes about nine months ago. It is our prayer that they will learn, do and teach this information to someone. Please pray that we would clearly teach each spiritual discipline and that they would be empowered to go and teach someone else. ~ Gwyn
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