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RELOVENSHIP: E-Newsletter No.8 June, 2016
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In this issue No.8, June 2016

Hello <<First Name>>,

Have you ever got swept off your feet, only to realize after a little while that you fell for someone with whom you really had not much in common? Someone so different from who you are that you couldn't help to question How in the world did this happen?  It's happened to many of us, and, according to two important sources, it is still more prevalent than we think.

In a Great Britain survey, over a third of 1,500 adults admitted being married to the wrong person. Shocking isn't it? But it gets worst... 42% of people using the Tinder dating app said in a GlobalWebIndex research that they already had a partner but, just kept looking... 

In this month's issue our coaches examine the phenomenon of "falling for the wrong person" in a tongue in cheek fashion, using an imaginary coaching session with an equally imaginary famous couple...

Their intent is certainly not to minimize, in any way, the dramas that often ensued with mismatched couples. On the contrary. But sometimes a bit of humor is the best remedy to defuse emotionally charged situations. As always, our goal this month is to provide advice and coaching that can help one or two, improve their current or future relationships. Who knows, maybe you are one of the two! (see more in coaching section)
Donald Trump, Hillary Clinton,
An ''Imaginary'' Coaching Session with Donald & Hillary


Mario: "How can we help you?"

Hillary: "Donald and I differ on too many issues now, and we both wonder if it can be reconciled. Quite frankly this is making me question if he's the right partner for me."

Diane: "Well this sounds like a very blunt assessment. Let's start with you Donald. What do you think Hillary's referring to?"

Donald: "I don't know what she's talking about. I think I'm a great partner. In fact if you knew me, you'd probably say that I'm among the best you've ever met. She'll never have a better partner than me!" 

Hillary:"Here we go again..."

Mario: "Okay, let's try this... Donald, what would be your #1 reproach to Hillary?"

Donald: "I think she's not transparent enough. It's as if she has stuff she keeps hidden on a personal server somewhere..."

Hillary: "I told him many times that I will happily divulge anything he wants to see once he too unveils his personal stuff."

Diane: "Alright then. What about you Hillary. What's you top grievance with Donald?"

Hillary: "I never know where he stands. He speaks from both sides of his mouth and keeps changing his opinions all the time!"

Donald: "I never, never, do that.
Believe me! I'm just showing flexibility at times, that's all. Hillary is not a flexible person. Believe me!"

Hillary: "See how he is? He's very condescending with women to say the least..."

Donald: "She keeps playing that women card with me. She knows
NOBODY respects women more than me. NOBODY. I think because she's part of the establishment, she's used to get it her way all the time."

Diane: "Wow... Let's try the gentleness side of things... Couples all have cute loving nicknames they like to use with one another in their intimacy. I'm curious to know yours. Hillary, how do call Donald?"

Hillary: "The Apprentice."

Donald: "I like to call her Crooked." 
 
Mario: "Okay guys, it seems like we'll have to leave your disagreements aside for now. But before you had your differences, there must have been something you guys agreed upon, something both of you wanted to have. What was it?''

Hillary: "Well we wanted a better future for ourselves."

Donald: "Yes, make our lives
Great Again! " 

Hillary: "Yes! And we both had this dream for a new home. You know a nice house all painted in white with an iron fence around it... Then, he changed his mind like he always does, and decided he would build a wall instead of the fence to protect us from immigrants and Muslims... And he wanted me to pay for it! That's when things started to go sour."

Donald: "Yep, I remember. That was bad. Worst than a bad hair day..."

Diane: "So you're done with your "white house" dream?''


Hillary: "Oh hell no! I still want it! But I'd rather move in with a womanizer than a racist!"

Donald: "I continue to think the wall is a great idea. Anyway, I still want my "white house" too.  And I'll have it with someone who truly appreciates my interior design taste. You know I have the greatest interior design taste don't you? I mean the
GREATEST! Have you seen pictures of Mar-a-Lago?"

Mario: "Thank you guys, I think we"ll call it a day..."

 

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Planet of The Apes, Charlton Heston,

Coaching Advice: Think Love Match Rather Than Mismatch   
 

Nobody ever said that individuals need to be identical in order to have a functional relationship. In fact we believe a Donald / Hillary couple could be viable, provided, both parties have a deep understanding of Who They Are and What They Are Looking For. When we have that in place, it shields us from making 2 major mistakes:

  1. Being blinded by someone's true colors. 
  2. Getting involved with somebody so "alien," that He/She will eventually look to us like a different specie.


And just to be clear, this is not about tastes. Tastes are always arbitrary. After all, who's to say vanilla ice cream is better than chocolate? And this is not about novelty either. Novelty is good, but at one point, every novelty becomes obsolete. Remember iTunes

So to have a long lasting, blissful relationship, let's all Think Love Match Rather Than Mismatch. The first step as we highlighted above is to understand Who You Are. This will require a bit of work but it is highly important to help you recognize your Love Match or reconcile any differences in your existing couple.  Take some time to identify the 4 areas that define Who You Are: your Gratitudes, your Beliefs, your Values and your Priorities. We call that your GBVPs.  

As a second step, make a list of What You're Looking For of your next partner. If you already have, it's worth going back to your list and check if it is still relevant! If you haven't, try to be as precise as possible. And one last thing: try to go beyond the physical attributes of the person because that's often how we tend to get blinded... Beauty is highly important but it transcends body features.


P.S.: You can download free templates on our website to help you complete these exercises.  
 

What People Are Saying

Below are some comments made by Media personalities on Mario & Diane's work. If you read their book, they would certainly appreciate your review on Amazon or Barnes & Noble. Beyond book sales, reviews are authors' true legacy. 

"Mario & Diane,
It was our great pleasure having you "ON POINT!" Reading "RELOVENSHIP" speaks openly about the shortcomings of your lives and past relationships which gives the reader hope. RELOVENSHIP illustrates the Power in the prefix "RE," which means to do again, to Re generate and to Re Start... Though you may have experienced hurt in past relationships there is an opportunity to heal one’s self, through self-truth and the power of God!"

Carlette Christmas - On Point Talk Radio Host  
www.onpointcxmas.com


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"I recently interviewed Diane and Mario on Radio MD. They offered great advice about love and relationships, and they were very fun to speak with. Love and relationship advice are always popular and this couple has plenty of great advice on keeping those relationships strong.

Radio MD STAY WELL
Melanie Cole MS

WWW.RadioMD.com


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"ReLovenship™ Look Within to Love Again! is an excellent book by Mario and Diane Cloutier which emphasises the importance of taking control of your thoughts and goals before seeking a potential partner. This book advocates the need to become reacquainted with oneself and learn to truly love oneself before seeking a partner. As a step by step guide, written from the male and female perspectives, the advice is refreshingly sound and direct and I had many views in common with the authors. I hope this book will inspire people to create a powerful intention of being happy, successful and finding the right partner."

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From Our Readers

“I found out about ReLovenship from a dear friend and I am SO glad I did. It is the type of self-help book that requires serious introspect. I recently went through a painful divorce. We still love each other very much, but the relationship was toxic. ReLovenship helped me answer the tough questions... I learned how to value myself, set my boundaries, and recognize my self-worth. I am so grateful for Diane and Mario's insight and would definitely recommend this book to others!” ─Nisha
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“I had the extreme pleasure of meeting Mario and Diane at a book signing here in Florida. They are an absolute beautiful couple. They exude love. So here is my honest review of ReLovenship:
I deal with a lot of couples who come to me for relationship advice because they feel my husband and I have the "perfect" relationship. But nothing is perfect, especially not our relationship. I think God sent Mario and Diane to me, because I needed this book in my life.
I realized what was going wrong in our relationship. I was busy trying to figure out who I was and my husband was just there. I felt like he wasn't with me. I felt like he wasn't loving me the way I wanted. What ReLovenship has taught me is that I have find love for myself first. I’ve read the book and it has allowed me to work on myself. My husband isn't a reader, but he has it on the night stand as apart of his to be read list.
This book made me take a hard look at who I was and am. It made me think back figure out what my "stories" are and how my past affects my future. Chapter 4 made me take a hard look at my secrets. My husband and I had a heart to heart in therapy and I had to come clean of all the wrong I had done in our relationship. This book hands down help save my marriage. I plan on sharing it with all my friends whether they are single, dating, engaged or married. We all must focus on loving ourselves.”
Martha
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“A true gem. I read Relovenship twice. As a professional matchmaker and dating coach I keep a copy in my office and highly recommend it to my clients. You can find love and with the right attitude and right tools you can succeed. Relovenship is definitely one of the right tools to help you in your quest for a fulfilling relationship.” Joan
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"This book is ideal for everyone! It is not only a great book for anyone looking for love or trying to find their soul mate. It's also a wonderful book for understanding yourself prior to taking the next steps into a relationship. There are many chapters you will want to read twice and many pages you will want to highlight!" ── Robyn


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About Us
 
Relationship Coaches, Authors and Huffington Post Bloggers, Mario P. Cloutier and Diane Sawaya Cloutier have each experienced real-life relationship sorrows of breakups and divorces before finally attracting the blissful relationship each of them were longing for. They became romantically involved in 1998 and married in 2001. Through their own experiences, learnings and ensuing search for "what makes relationships work," they have become trusted advisors for seekers of true love.

Their intention is to bring inspiration, hope and provide tools to demonstrate that all can still attract “the one,’’ the soul mate or the ideal life partner, in spite of how many heartbreaks one may have experienced, and moreover, that it is possible to "live happily... EVEN after!" 

In their book, Mario & Diane often tag-team, speaking from a common voice to share their point of view on general themes, but they also make a point to address readers of their own gender in each chapters on specific issues, proving that men and women may process relationships differently... while ultimately seeking the same outcome!
Diane Sawaya Cloutier’s constant desire to learn has led her to develop a passion for personal development and relationships.

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