RELOVENSHIP: E-Newsletter No.4 February, 2016
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In this issue No.4, February 2016

Hello <<First Name>>,

Welcome back. In this month's issue our relationship coaches have decided to tackle two beasts at the same time. Why not? After all, there's two of them "talking" in here!

Firstly, they get down and personal on an unavoidable date for the season: February 14th, a.k.a. Valentine's Day!  What you'll find in the "A Word from Mario & Diane" section may surprise you coming from our two big "love fans..."

Secondly, in the "Coaching Advice" section, they provide the concluding part of their Cold Season piece that they had initiated last month. If you missed the January issue, feel free to send us an email at and we will gladly fire you back an eCopy.  By the way, we encourage you to share our eNewsletter with your friends and recommend them to sign up at  Who knows, this small gesture of yours could help someone improve their own relationship. 

We hope you enjoy this month's issue.
A word from Mario & Diane

Valentine’s Day resonates with romance, love and fireworks! For many of us, it is a day filled with high sentimental expectations because after all, isn’t this supposed to be the day to express your true feelings for the love of your life? The day when a bold statement, filled with symbolism, is supposed to be made not only between two lovers but also for the WHOLE world watching? That’s probably one of the reasons why February 14th is said to be the “biggest” engagement date of the year in the U.S. Absolutely! It's also reported that Valentine’s Day, in the U.S. alone, is a 20 BILLION$ day for the "love merchants," second only to... Christmas. How convenient for our economy!

So let us announce our true colors: we don't get overly enthusiasts when we're confronted with the arrival of Cupidon and his celebrated red soaked day... Why? Precisely for the statistics highlighted above. Simply put, we strongly believe "love" has nothing to do with conformity. 

You see, if you are in a relationship, why wait to February 14th to celebrate your love? Because everybody does? We're sorry but that's not a good enough answer... In all the years we've been together, both of us have made a point of honor to not celebrate Valentine’s Day, but, we also made the vow to keep our love alive and forefront for the rest of the year! That doesn't mean we send each other flowers and chocolates all the time. (Although we both looooove flowers and chocolates!) What it means is that we like to surprise our partner with special attentions, invitations or small gifts on an ongoing basis. These small gestures act as a constant reminder between us that we cherish each other and the relationship is a lot more than any date on the calendar might indicate. That said, we also have "our own" calendar dates for which we don’t need any flower shop’s or chocolate maker’s marketing to remind us how lucky we are to have found that special person. Don't follow the crowd. Your love is too special for conformity.

P.S.: If you are alone on Valentine’s Day, you should not necessarily see this as a curse. You probably spared yourself an over priced bad dinner in an overbooked restaurant with an awful service provided by overstretched and stressed out waiters, with someone who's maybe only sailing the love wave... Just smile and be happy. You're worth more than that!


What People Are Saying

Below are some comments made by Media personalities on Mario & Diane's work. If you read their book, they would certainly appreciate your review on Amazon or Barnes & Noble. Beyond book sales, reviews are authors' true legacy. 

"Mario & Diane,
It was our great pleasure having you "ON POINT!" Reading "RELOVENSHIP" speaks openly about the shortcomings of your lives and past relationships which gives the reader hope. RELOVENSHIP illustrates the Power in the prefix "RE," which means to do again, to Re generate and to Re Start... Though you may have experienced hurt in past relationships there is an opportunity to heal one’s self, through self-truth and the power of God!"

Carlette Christmas - On Point Talk Radio Host

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"I recently interviewed Diane and Mario on Radio MD. They offered great advice about love and relationships, and they were very fun to speak with. Love and relationship advice are always popular and this couple has plenty of great advice on keeping those relationships strong.

Melanie Cole MS

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"ReLovenship™ Look Within to Love Again! is an excellent book by Mario and Diane Cloutier which emphasises the importance of taking control of your thoughts and goals before seeking a potential partner. This book advocates the need to become reacquainted with oneself and learn to truly love oneself before seeking a partner. As a step by step guide, written from the male and female perspectives, the advice is refreshingly sound and direct and I had many views in common with the authors. I hope this book will inspire people to create a powerful intention of being happy, successful and finding the right partner."


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Coaching Advice (2nd of 2)

February. The Cold Season for the lonely hearts amongst us. A time that can deceptively give one an emotional chill, making one think that her or his quest to ever find love again is just utopia. It's not. But here's what it could be. It could be the kick start to a ReLovenshiptm Process.

You've heard us say this before. Attracting a long lasting blissful relationship is a process. It cannot be achieved overnight. But rather than losing hope, the start of a new year is a great timing to put things into place for finding that ideal life partner! 

In this 2nd of 2 Coaching Advice for the Cold Season, we are sharing the final 5 steps of our ReLovenshiptm Process. Given that we have shared the 1st 5 steps in our January issue, the last following 5 steps are numbered from 6 to 10. 

6. Be clear on what you want

What is it that you want of your next relationship? Note that we did not drill it down to a person yet. This is about the relationship, the whole package made up by two individuals, which obviously includes you! From there, drill it down to what you would like your next partner to be. The more details the better. 
7. Generate the "Well Thought... Thoughts"
This is actually two full chapters in our book so we won’t be able to explain it in full details here. This is where you get to flex your IQ (Imagination Quotient) to start attracting your ideal life partner. It is a 5 steps process:

8. Run a tight ship
This is the 1st step to help you qualify if an individual can be “the one” you’ve been looking for. This means your expectations for the “relationship to be” should be clear for you and the other person. Act with leadership and decisiveness. 

9. Choose carefully who gets in your domain
You are the CEO of your domain.  As you resume dating, you will need to show up prepared for your first “meetings” with the individual, just as any good CEO would do. At this stage, improvisation will only stall and deviate you from your process.

10. Enforce your Personal Laws
These are the non-negotiable, non-breakable laws or rules that you set for yourself to ensure that you are moving along with the right person. They scream loudly how much you love yourself, they reinforce that you are priceless, and thus, not willing to compromise your own self just to be with someone. It helps you stay on course so you won't settle for anything less than the relationship you deserve. Personal Laws emphasize that anything of great value deserves to be handled with care. Go ahead, draw up your list of your own personal laws and stick to them!
 If you haven’t already, please download our free templates from to help you complete some of the exercises that we have highlighted in this article.
ReLovenshiply yours!


About Us
Authors Mario P. Cloutier and Diane Sawaya Cloutier are not psychologists, but rather, they are individuals who each experienced real-life relationship sorrows of breakups and divorces before finally attracting a blissful relationship. They became romantically involved in 1998 and married in 2001.
Through their own experiences and learnings with past relationships and ensuing search for their soul mate, they have become trusted advisors to other "true love seekers."  Their intention is to bring inspiration, hope and provide tools that demonstrate that you can still attract “the one,’’ the soul mate or the ideal life partner in spite of how many heartbreaks you may have experienced.
In their book, Mario & Diane often tag-team to share their own experience and address readers of their own gender. They are also Bloggers for the Huffington Post.
Diane Sawaya Cloutier’s constant desire to learn has led her to develop a passion for personal development and relationships.

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