Plenty Woman Weekly
February 8, 2016

Theme: Purpose
Topic: Smart
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It’s for speeches like Viola Davis’s at the January 30th SAG Awards that I wade through the awards season shows. Here’s her acceptance speech for Best Actress in a Drama Series for her role of Annalise Keating in How to Get Away With Murder:

“There’s a famous saying: I’m not who you think I am. You are who you think I am. And I think about that because people are always saying, ‘Wow, Annalise is an antihero. And don’t you worry that she’s not likeable? And don’t you worry that she’s not a mentor?’ And I always think, Why do I have to be a hero? Why do you have to like me? And why do I have to be a mentor? My job as an actor is just to create a human being to the best of my ability – flawed, messy. Maybe not always likeable; maybe not cute. It is my job and I do it to the best of my ability.”

I’m not an actor, so I can’t relate on that level, but I am a human being, doing that to the best of my ability. I’m also a writer, with a new website, doing that to the best of my ability. Most days, though, I find myself doubting whether it’s enough – judging the value of what I’m putting out there, and why I’m doing it at all.

That reminds me of the piece I wrote a couple weeks back about wanting to be important to the world. Wanting to make a difference. Wanting, at the heart of it, to be a hero.

In the words of Viola Davis, Why do I have to be a hero? Or, maybe I just need to change my definition of hero. Isn’t doing what I’m doing, to the best of my ability, a heroic act?

I think it is; I just want to start believing it and living it.

Here are links to my latest posts at

Smart Because You Say I Am? an essay
People Think I’m Stupid When I Don’t Know Things: Worry Journal Exercise
Trust What You Know: Guided Meditation (4 Minutes)

I felt particularly unsure about putting these pieces out there. Honestly, I don’t know if the writing is any different or if my anxiety level (and subsequent insecurity) was just particularly high last week – because of the topic and, frankly, PMS kicking my ass.

The point is, I don’t want it to matter.

I just want to do my best – on any given day, with any given task, in any given mood – and have that be good enough. I know you want the same for yourself, and I am indescribably grateful for your participation on this journey to get there.

Wishing you a Best of Your Ability Day,


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